Constructive Disruptor
There is still a good deal of social and organisational change required for women to no longer need to navigate the tension between their leader role and gender role – the double bind. It seems a long time coming! And we need to keep pushing it along.
Yet maintaining our positivity and focus on contributing to those shifts can be exhausting and frustrating. Literally being at the sharp end day in and day out, is tough. It can feel like we are grinding our way too slowly through thick intractable ice.
What works for me is knowing that in these transitional times, while the stereotypes around leadership thaw and we begin to normalise women in leadership, the extra skilful work leaders do as ice breakers is extremely important work. And the wake we as ice-breakers leave (both men and women) will enrich individual lives and organisational leadership.